How to Choose a Career You Will Love

I often get asked by high school and college kids for career advice. Over the years, I’ve distilled it down to two steps. This is what I tell them:

There are two steps to choosing a career. If you do the work on each, you will exponentially increase your chances of having a career you will love.

First, identify people who do what you think you want to do and follow them around. Don’t stalk them, volunteer to help them for a month or two. Give them free labor in return for learning about their work.

I know what you’re thinking, duh, of course. But this obvious first step is often skipped.

How may college graduates jump to law school, business school or other graduate school and invest countless hours and money into their studies only to realize two or three years later that they hate being a lawyer, teacher, accountant or financial advisor? But now they’re in big debt and have lost two to three years of earning capacity.

Make a serious effort to shatter your misconceptions. Bring a big hammer. Find out what the work is really like by shadowing someone who does it. You will [Read more...]

The Biggest Impact on Your Child’s Life

How much time and money do you invest to help your children get into the right college or develop their athletic skills? Yet, getting into the right college or excelling in sports are, for most children, short term achievements. On a scale of 1 to 10 on what will positively impact your children’s lives, college choice and youth sports are at best a 5.

Who they marry, however, is a 10. Who your child marries will impact your child’s life more than any other decision he or she makes.

How do you help your child make that decision? The good news is it doesn’t require private schools, SAT prep courses or sports camps.  It’s done by loving and treating your spouse the way you would want your child’s spouse to love and treat your child. They see what you do and will model that and expect that.